Thanks for the link. I used a much shorter version of that to get the 45600 paired with my Z Stick. Pairing it to the network, All On and All Off works fine. I followed those instructions, but I still can't get scenes or individual switches to work. I'm pretty new to z wave, so I may be way off, but it seems like pairing with the Vera (the second time) actually loads the scenes from the Vera onto the remote. I have no idea how to make the Z Stick do that, but I'll keep messing with it as I have time.
On another note, are there any secondary controller remotes that people are using and recommend with HG?